“Sorrow is better than laughter, because a sad face is good for the heart” (Ecclesiastes 7:3, NIV).
Isn’t it strange how opposite the Christian life often is from what we expect it to be? We die to live. We humble ourselves to be exalted. We are to love those who hate us. In almost every aspect of life, Christ has called us to be a counter-culture to the world we live in.
It is never easy. We have been patterned from the day we were born to think, act, and feel like the world around us. The natural thing for us is to respond to challenges as the world does. To live as “opposites,” as Christ would have us do, takes daily commitment and a constant refocusing of our hearts.
Perhaps the most difficult challenge in this regard is having a spiritual perspective on sorrow and suffering. The Lord has instructed us to view pain and difficulty as steps toward maturity (James 1:2-4), and persecution for Christ’s sake as an honor (Matthew 5:9-12). We are called to have a different perspective on our troubles, because, as Solomon tells us, those problems can actually serve to strengthen our hearts.
Sorrow and pain will never feel right, just like we will never feel like loving our enemies. The challenge is to rely on God’s wisdom and trust in His divine care, regardless of how we feel in the moment.
Kerry